Saturday, January 31, 2009

The Daily: 1.30.09

The Daily is where I run down what I did the day before in terms of food, exercise and so on.

Mostly it’s a visual recording of how I spent my time and it’s primarily for me but I put it out there in case anyone has any suggestions or thoughts they think might be of benefit.

The Daily: 1.30.09

Breakfast:

8 baby carrots

1 plum

16 ounces water

one cup coffee

Lunch: (Thai restaurant)

One  order of Chicken curry with mixed vegetables but no rice

18 crockpot mini meatballs

one cup pasta salad

one cup lasagne

16 ounces water

Dinner: 

None

16 ounces water

Exercise:

45 minutes walking at 3.8 on the treadmill and 10 minutes of crunches


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I had a strategy …

… and I blew it

Today was a ‘group lunch’ deal at work for a co-worker. These are very popular where I work. Someone thinks up a theme (Italian, Mexican, Potluck, etc.) and everyone signs up to bring something.

I already had plans to go to the Thai restaurant with a friend but I was pressed for a contribution, so I brought fresh watermelon and pineapple (I cut them myself).

I went to lunch as planned and had a very good time.

Then, when I got back to work - everyone was still chowing down on an obscene amount of food.

I did well for about an hour and then I caved and tried two meatballs … then I went back for more.

Twice.

Then I tried the pasta salad.

Then the lasagne.

By this time I felt completely gross — which, I’m sure, is the ONLY reason I didn’t have any of the cheesecake, brownies, cookies or other sweets they had sitting on setup tables throughout our floor.

I did make it to the gym but that’s cold comfort for my plan considering that today — foodwise — was a capital F.


Thursday, January 29, 2009

She Had Large Firm Breasts (A Very Short Story)

B.J. Kent asked Judy Lamar to join him after class for a couple of beers, his treat. Judy said sure. It would be the fourth time in two weeks that Judy had said yes to joining B.J. for a few beers. B.J. was sure Judy liked him. He sure liked Judy. Judy had large, firm breasts and wore low cut tops.

The two left their classroom in the Cathedral of Learning of the University of Pittsburgh and headed for a bar. Only a few customers were in the bar when B.J. and Judy walked in. He and she sat at the bar. Usher was jamming on the jukebox. After their second pitcher of beer B.J. said to Judy, “Another pitcher?”

“One more,” she said. “The next time we’re here it’s on me.”

“Great.”

The other customers left. The bartender brought their pitcher of beer and said, “I got to run downstairs for awhile. If anyone comes in tell them I’ll be right up.”

B.J. looked in the mirror behind the bar. Judy was talking about a particular professor who always stared at her chest when he addressed her. B.J. wondered what would happen if he placed a hand on one of her breasts. As she talked, her face turned toward him, he kept his eyes on her face. Then B.J. started sweating. He knew what he was going to do.

Judy stopped talking to drink some beer. B.J. stood up and stood behind her. He placed his hands on her shoulders. She put down her glass and smiled into the mirror behind the bar at him. B.J. thought, she probably thinks I’m going to do something romantic like give her a back massage. Using every ounce of courage he had, B.J. slid his hands down inside her top and inside her bra. He cupped both breasts in his hands. In the mirror, her expression was one of complete surprise. She froze. He began massaging her breasts.  The nipples of her breasts got harder. Her body swayed with his massaging.

“B.J.!” she said.

He yanked his hands out of her top. The bartender opened the door from the basement and walked behind the bar lugging two cases of beer. Judy swivelled on her stool and faced B.J.

She said in a low intense voice, “This is not the right place.”


Tuesday, January 27, 2009

WIFC Prayers for Peace 2009

WOLVERHAMPTON INTER FAITH COUNCIL

PRAYERS FOR PEACE 2009

St Peters Collegiate Church, 25.01.2009

MUSLIM PRAYER:

Read by Paul Salahuddin Armstrong

Prophet’s Prayer For The Envious People

O Thou that givest aliment and power and stability,

Set free the people from their instability.

To the soul that is bent double by envy

Give uprightness in the path of duty,

Give them self-control, “weigh down their scales,”

Release them from the arts of deceivers.

Redeem them from envying, O gracious One,

That through envy they be not stoned like Iblis.

Even in their fleeting prosperity, see how the people

Burn up wealth and men through envy!

See the kings who lead forth their armies

To slay their own people from envy!

Lovers of sweethearts have conceived jealousy,

And attempted one another’s lives,

Read “Wais and Ramin” and “Khosrau and Shirin”

To see what these fools have done to one another.

Lovers and beloved have both perished;

And not themselves only, but their love as well.

‘Tis God alone who agitates these nonentities

Making one nonentity fall in love with another.

In the heart that is no heart envy comes to a head,

Thus Being troubles nonentity.

From Rumi’s Masnavi



“qul acodhu bi- rabb al- falaq

min sharr maa khalaqa

wa- min sharr ghaasiq ‘idhaa waqaba

wa- min sharr an- naffaathaat fe al- cuqad

wa- min sharr h.aasid ‘idhaa h.asada”

“Say: I seek refuge with the Lord of the Dawn,

From the mischief of created things;

From the mischief of Darkness as it overspreads;

From the mischief of those who practice Secret Arts;

And from the mischief of the envious one as he practices envy”

Holy Qur’an 113 “Surah Al-Falaq”


Sunday, January 25, 2009

Mass-transit Mayhem

The recently-released PriceWaterhouseCoopers report, Cities of Opportunity, contains bad news for transport planners in Sydney.

The comprehensive analysis of 20 cities examined ease of doing business, tourism, community standards, infrastructure and green qualities. It rated Sydney overall as very good averaging fifth in the world and coming top in housing, entertainment and life expectancy. But the city came last in one indicator: transport and infrastructure.

Sydney Chamber of Commerce’s Patricia Forsythe says Sydney’s mass transit system is a major throttle. “All these other cities have been building infrastructure to support their communities, metro rail in particular,” she said. “We are so far behind. You can’t be way out in front in terms of sustainability, global readiness and yet come last in public transport if you want to send a message to the world that this is a great place in which to invest and live and do business.”

NSW Transport Minister David Campbell stated that the government was aware of the problem. “The government will bring on line next year the Epping to Chatswood rail link and there are also 600 rail carriages on order,” he said.

Greens Senator Scott Ludlam called for a senate inquiry into mass transit and major investment in the nation’s public transport.

“We are initiating an audit of all public transport in his country. Australia needs to clearly understand what public transport exists, what condition it’s in, where the gaps are, and what can be done to increase its usage in the community,” he said. “We are working to shift federal funding away from roads to public passenger transport which does not currently receive any federal funds, leaving this vital responsibility entirely to the states.”

Meanwhile Greens MP Lee Rhiannon has criticised the NSW Government’s recent passing of the Transport Administration Amendment (Metro Rail) Bill 2008 which establishes a separate Sydney Metro Authority to manage plans for a CBD metro.

Ms Rhiannon said the Bill was misguided, expensive and went against the worldwide trend to integrate transport management in cities. “Sydney needs a single transport co-ordination authority, not another separate agency going about its business in isolation,” she said. “The Greens support the extension of public transport, but this $4 billion CBD metro project is not the solution to Sydney’s transport crisis. The government could deliver a better outcome at a fraction of the price by extending the existing light rail service.”


wheels/rails/water (Sydney Public Transport)

Saturday, January 24, 2009

NIMBY/NIMFYE

So Obama held up one promise so far: he closed down the Guantanamo Prison at GITMO. Just so we are clear, the base isn’t closing just the prison portion of it, the one that we were given a tour of in the movie SiCKO. Yet there is one thing that the liberals, socialists, and leftist Democrats forgot to think about when they were clamoring for this for the last few years: what to do with the prisoners.

I occupy that middle zone of people that had no problem with the camp as long as the prisoners were given trials, charges, and access to their attorneys. I could forsee that just closing the base wasn’t good enough, moving them from one place to another doesn’t do any good if they are just going to be held indefinitely somewhere else. Now we are going to hear the familiar debate more well known to people that pay attention to the criminal justice system. WE NEED A PLACE TO PUT THESE PEOPLE AS LONG AS IT’S SOMEWHERE ELSE.

This is NIMBY, the “Not In My BackYard,” and NIMFYE, the “NOT IN MY FRONT YARD EITHER.” They can’t go to a regular prison for reasons including but not limited to: they didn’t commit regular crimes, some are not actually charged with anything and thus haven’t been convicted of anything. Is it fair to them to be placed in a prison with convicted murderers, drug dealers, and rapists? Conversely is it fair to those who have been committed “normal crimes” to be housed in the same facility as those who have attacked U.S. soldiers? Or are either of these choices moot, because really, who gives a shit?

Military prison is obviously the best solution since these people are considerred enemy combatants and were mostly captured by US Soldiers, how that doesn’t make them POWs is a technicality of law exploited by the previous administration. That legal techinicality has now been expunged by the new President, but logistical questions still remain.

So that’s one day, one promise kept. So far that’s pretty good for a politician.



Thursday, January 22, 2009

Wikipedia's Definition of Romance

A search for Romance on Wikipedia returned the following:



  • Romantic Movement (as in Romanticism: an artistic and intellectual movement in the late eighteenth and early nineteenth centuries ) 

  • Literature

  • Music

  • Romantic Love

  • Places

  • Films


Robbins Brothers ”Random Acts of Romance“  officially launches on January 26th, 2009 and will focus on Romantic Love. The employees at Robbins Brothers, including Steve Robbins, the Chief Engagement Officer, know from experience that it’s the little things you do in a relationship that keep the romance alive. Random Acts of Romance is a way to remind couples to get back to the things you did when you dated, such as opening the car door, sharing a dessert and holding hands during a movie. These little random acts show the other person you’re with that you’re still in love.

During the courting phase, the guy might send a dozen roses to his girlfriend’s work place. A candlelit dinner for two at home may be a way to show a significant other you’re in love. A piece of jewelry or a watch may be the birthday or Valentine’s Day gift that takes the relationship from casual to serious.  And then there’s the diamond engagement ring that’s part of a surprise marriage proposal.  But sadly, after the engagement, wedding and honeymoon, couples settle into a rut and forget to do the little things that contributed to the reasons they fell in love.

Check out the Robbins Brothers web site and make a resolution this year to put the romance back in your relationship. And be sure to share your own Random Act of Romance on the Robbins Brothers web site between January 26 and February 14, 2009 for a chance to win a $1000 shopping spree!


2 Year Relationship, What Should I Do to Get Over Her?

2 Year Relationship, What Should I Do to Get Over Her?

Fool for Love: Chapter 2

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

Bentos #198, 199, 200 and 201!

Grr - and I didn’t make a celebratory bento! I’m going to have to do that tomorrow.



I’m not sure my BF will be able to eat this… creepy forest spirits made of cheese on 3 mushroom rice. (By the way, this is not a good dish for mixing different types of rice. The cooking time difference makes the recipe not work well :/)

Since I’m gonna eat bento both morning and evening tomorrow, I made a whopping 4(!) different bentos tonight! Weekend cooking + weekend leftovers make for lots of bento ingredients, luckily.



Also for the BF. Halloumi sandwiches with homemade half-wholemeal buns, lettuce, onion and tomato, and a marble box of falafel, croquette balls, brussel sprouts and a cherry tomato. The dog contains Ajvar and mayo.



The box is new and has a cute cartoon character on the front, Petterson and Findus (Findus is the cat). There is also a tray that fits in it, but I took it out to fit the sandwiches.



My sandwich is accompanied by couscous salad decorated with a tomato and parsley flower, and a fizzy lemon sherbet candy for afterwards.



And my lunch menu contains leftovers from the curry cookoff yesterday: Bell pepper curry on rice, and plantain curry with grapes and a cherry tomato in the upper layer.



I’ve never had plantains before! They are quite nice - somewhat like potatoes, but without the typical “boiled potato” taste. They smell nicely of banana, too. I used this recipe and I heartily recommend it!

So much for my cooking adventures this week! How about you?


Sunday, January 18, 2009

Ce n'est pas la mer à boire!!

C’mon folks! Ce n’est pas la mer à boire!*

My apartment building has an underground parking facility, which the luxury of using costs me extra money each month. I could park on the street, or across the street in a parking lot for free, but there’s a pretty high rate of vehicle vandalism in my neck of the woods. It’s worth a little extra money for the peace of mind. Anyway, it’s gated nice and securely and the only people who have access to it are those who park their cars there. Still, it takes the gate a little while to close sometimes and it would be easy enough to slip in I guess, if one wanted to do that.

That’s where the second security measure comes in. Instead of having a key to any door in our building, we have pass cards like in a hotel. You cannot enter the building or any apartment without one of these cards. This goes for exterior doors and the door from the garage. I find all of this security very reassuring as our neighborhood is not that safe. The cops patrol a lot, but hey…I like the swish of the card and the safety of the “beep” letting me in.

Four times this week I have come downstairs on my way to my car to find the door to the garage propped open. I’m sorry. There’s no reason for this. Ce n’est pas la mer à boire to shut the door behind you or open it up again. Really. I’m paying extra for all this “security” and these lazy bones in my building are jeopardizing that.

Really. C’mon. Shut the door.

*Ce n’est pas la mer à boire is one of my favorite French idioms. It equates roughly to, “it’s not like drinking the whole ocean” or “it’s not rocket science”. Basically it means that the task, whatever it is, is not that difficult. Actually I don’t think rocket science is a good comparison, because that’s about smarts. Ce n’est pas la mer à boire isn’t about your intelligence, just that the task is do-able. I love idoms.


Saturday, January 17, 2009

Tofu 101

When someone first learns that you are a vegetarian, or even if you’re just into veg cooking, its only a short time before you’re asked the question: “So, I bet you eat a lot of tofu, huh?” This is meant innocently enough by some, even earnestly by those who are curious about tofu but have never tried cooking with it. A lot of people use it to convey their disdain of your dietary choices, so you should translate this question as “Shut up Hippie.” But, rather than retorting with the million reasons why there is nothing wrong with being a vegetarian, I find it’s more productive to simply reply, “Yeah, I do. It’s great now that I’ve finally learned how to cook with it.

That’s most people’s problem with tofu. They didn’t grow up with it, their moms never cooked with it, and they have no idea what to do with that very uninspiring white block if they ever decide to try it.

 Tofu

So why bother cooking tofu? There is, in fact, no law requiring vegetarians to eat it, so why is it so popular? The reasons are various, but I’ll review my top few.

(1) It’s cheap, really, really cheap. I’m talking $0.79/pound. When is the last time you bought anything you could make a substantial main course out of for that little money? Even if you go with the high end brands, (which, in my experience, taste no better than the cheap varieties), you are still only looking at $2.00/pound.

(2) It’s versatile. It goes in everything from stir-fries, casseroles, lasagna, sandwiches, salads, etc.

(3) It’s a nutritional powerhouse. For one serving (about 1/5 of a pound), you get 9g protein, for only about 5g fat, 0g saturated fat, 80 calories, and 2g carbs. You also get some calcium, iron, and B vitamins.

So, how in the world do you transform tofu into something yummy? First you need to know what kind to buy, then know how to prepare it.

Firm Tofu - When you first start using tofu, this is what you want. Brands will often be labeled firm, extra firm, or hard. This is the type that is best for stir-frying or baking. You will normally find it near the produce section in small white tubs with plastic wrap on top.

Soft Tofu - This may be found in the produce section too. This is most often used in smoothies, dips, or in places where you might use sour cream or even cream cheese.

Silken Tofu - This is often found in the natural/healthy cooking sections of grocery stores. It does not need to be refrigerated. It is often used in smoothies and puddings.

There are numerous other forms of tofu, especially pre-processed products, including tofu deli-sandwich slices, tofu ground crumbles, tofu burgers, or tofu sausage links. As with most things, they vary from brand to brand, but they are all worth trying.

Tofu Cooking Methods:

Step 1: Pressing

When you buy firm tofu, it will come packed in water. The first step is to drain the water and then press the extra water out. Tofu, as it is so often is said, is like a sponge. It has virtually no flavor of its own, but it easily soaks up other flavors. In order to do this though, you have to get rid of as much water to increase its “soaking potential.”

To do this, place the tofu on one of its long sides. Cut down the long side, then cut each of those two pieces down the long sides. You will have four thin rectangles. Lay down some paper towels or a clean dish towel. Place the pieces on top of the towel. Then top with another dish towel or more paper towels. Place something on top of the top dish towel to weigh the tofu down, such as a cutting board. You add something heavy on top of this to add extra weight so that more water will be released. I usually set a large stock pot on top of the cutting board. Leave the tofu to drain for 10-30 minutes. I will normally wring out the dish towels once during this process to allow them to soak up more water.

Step 2: Marinading

Tofu tastes like nothing. Although you can eat it as is, as tofu can safely be eaten without cooking, I wouldn’t recommend it. This is actually a great advantage as you can use any marinade imaginable depending on the dish you are making. First put the tofu in a shallow dish, preferably plastic or glass. Pour about 1/4-1/2 marinade over the tofu. Cover and put in the fridge. Marinade for 30 minutes-24 hours. I usually make a few batches at once, and just freeze the extra. Before putting it in the freezer, allow the tofu to marinade for a few hours first, place in some plastic-ware, and store in the freezer. It takes about 24 hours for tofu to fully dethaw in the fridge.

Step 3: Cooking

I use two primary methods of cooking tofu. Both are easy and produce reliable results.

Baking:

Baking produces a nice, chewy product that is great in all types of dishes, and it’s simple.

Preheat oven to 375 F. Coat a baking pan with cooking spray. Place the tofu pieces on the cooking tray. Cook for 1 hour until golden brown in color, turning once halfway through. Oven temperatures vary and may need to be adjusted slightly. Depending on what you are making, you may want to go ahead and cut the tofu into bite size 1/2 inch or 1 inch squares before baking. Baked tofu can be stored in the fridge for 5-7 days.

Stir-frying:

Stir-frying produces a nice crispy crust on the outside. Heat a skillet to medium-high. Add 1-3 tbsp of cooking oil (olive, canola, sesame oil) to the skillet. Cut the tofu into bite sized pieces. Once the oil is hot, add the tofu. Let cook 3-4 minutes per side before turing. A golden crust should form on each side.

Sometimes, you run into the problem of tofu sticking to the skillet when stir-frying, which produces a very unappetizing mess. Here are three tips that I found help prevent that problem. (1) Cold tofu out of the fridge fries better than if it has been sitting at room temperature for a while. (2) The type of skillet is key. Non-stick skillets have only produced tofu cooking disasters for me. Stainless steel and cast iron are much more reliable, especially the later. (3) Don’t be afraid to use oil. Coating the skillet in cooking spray alone normally doesn’t cut it. You don’t need a ton of oil, but don’t be afraid to use a couple of teaspoons. Store extras in the fridge for 2-3 days.

This may seem like a lot of work, but you can produce some really tasty results. Patience is required, as it is with any food you’ve never tried cooking before. Once you start cooking, you’ll often find that preparing a couple of pounds at a time will allow you to use it in various dishes throughout the week and always have a snack handy.


Richard Blais Prepares Tofu in Beef Fat

Thursday, January 15, 2009

bad dream...

Last night I had a bad dream, too bad that I was unable to continue my sleep. It was very terrifying and it made me think if it was real or just a dream. I didn’t manage to know exactly what time is it in the morning coz I’m too occupied to separate what I’m thinking to what is really happening in the reality.


The dream is about someone I knew. In that dream, my father and I were watching the television, there was news about a girl who has been raped and was found already dead. In the news the face of the dead girl was posted. What really struck me is about the suspect. The suspect is someone who is close to me. I remember that on my dream my father and I was shocked and my heart felt really bad as if it had been crushed into pieces beyond repair. When I woke up, my heart still aches and I’m convincing myself that it was just a dream. My body can’t move and my eyes been fixed with an object only but I’m not aware with what I’m seeing. As if I’ve become paralyzed for a moment.


After a while, I’ve realized that it was just a dream and I’m relieved. Because I was still sleepy on that time, I came back to sleep. Luckily I’ve managed to get my sleep back without any hassle.


That dream was still on my mind today and I know that I’ll never forget it. It was so vivid and as I thought of it, it was not far from reality; maybe it can happen or happened already. But I’m wishing that it was not true, I really trust that person in my life.


I hope there’s a memory eraser that can help you erase all the bad memories you wish to delete…


Wednesday, January 14, 2009

"Yes, You Can!" Sayings and Proverbs

“Simplicity is the beauty that decorates humanity.”  I don’t know what the origin of that saying is, whether it is Uzbek or not, maybe my Kazakh readers might know.  The next one is Uzbek for sure but might apply to other Central Asians:  “Uzbek women prefer to be a mother of scientists rather than being a scientist.”  From a British male perspective, this is what George Bernard Shaw penned: “When I was a young man, I observed that one out of ten things were failures.  I did not want to be a failure, so I did ten times more work.”  I’m sure Shaw’s mother was proud of him.


 


A Russian proverb is interesting to read while living in Central Asia which is traditionally known as an oral culture: “It is better to see once than hear 100 times.”  Obviously whoever voiced that was NOT an auditory learner.  A Kazakh proverb which also relates to education is:  “The better you grow up the tree, the sooner you eat its great fruits.”


 


Dale Carnegie was known to have written:  “You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you.”  I’m not sure who wrote the following but I appreciate its wisdom:  “We know who we were, who we are and who we are going to be; likewise, I know who I was and who I am going to be in the future, and that is what I have been working on since I remember myself.”


 


Finally, the following is written by John Wesley which means living life to the fullest with a “yes, you can” attitude and work ethic:


 



Do all the good you can,


By all the means you can,


In all the ways you can,


In all the places you can,


At all the times you can,


To all the people you can,


As long as you can.



 


 


Tuesday, January 13, 2009

January Farm Poem by Sarah Aubrey

January

There is a blue light at dawn that soon fades to grey

and stays there even

as the barn cat goes to hunt at dusk.

Sometimes, though, the steely sky silhouette’s

the grain-leg and the shed as if sketched by pencil lead

while a blush of pink peeks between clouds

at day’s end.

Two pairs of gloves, overalls, a hat and coat,

the gear required for morning chores.

Ice hangs on the fence line, in the trees

and glitters on a few brown blades of grass.

The cattleman worries over ears and tails,

keeping newborn calves warm and dry.

As the line of round bales slowly depletes,

days lengthen desperately slow.

When will colors return to the sky,

the fields, and even the stones of the creek?

Oh, I crave the bright-light of May,

or at least a balmy April afternoon!

By:

Sarah Beth Aubrey


Genki rockets starline & Lyrics

Monday, January 12, 2009

Johnny Walker

 ”So, what is your experience with adoption?” I inquired, awaiting a fantastic story.  My husband had invited over a friend whom I knew had been adopted.  I couldn’t wait to hear his story.



He looked at the table for awhile, tracing the flowers on the table cloth with his eyes.  Taking off his glasses, he rubbed his eyes and reached for the bottle of Johnny Walker.  He poured another glass and after a terribly uncomfortable pause said, “I’m in therapy now.” 

All I could muster was, “What?”

“Well, you have to understand my experience is quite different than Nathan’s.  You guys got him from the hospital.  I was passed around from foster home to foster home for nine months until my parents adopted me.  Then my adoptive mom was abusive to me - physically and emotionally.”  

 I wanted to say, “What?” again, but managed to squeak out, “Oh, I see.”  I couldn’t believe it.  How can someone choose to adopt and then abuse a child?

“Well, ” I went on with my questioning. “I just don’t want Nathan to have identity issues.”

Johnny Walker’s response was quick and unfaltering.  ”Oh, he will!  He’ll have identity issues.”  

I just imagined this conversation going a different way.  Hmph.  I’m not worried, though.  Nathan is going to be fine.  I think love, honesty and giving information at the appropriate time goes a long way.


Poetry Readings

Sunday, January 11, 2009

Funny Speeches

Funny Speeches - Read This Great Example Of A Funny Speech


“Hi everyone, before I start could I just get confirmation from the BBC technicians in the other room that the canned laugher is ready to go the moment I crash and burn,..ok, lets go.

Good afternoon ladies and gentlemen, I’d like to start by thanking Kevin on behalf of the bridesmaids for his kind words. I think they all look beautiful and have done a great job of looking after Gemma today. I would also like to thank everyone here on behalf of the bride and groom, for sharing their wedding day, particularly those who’ve travelled long way.

I think it’s fair to say that currently I feel like I’ve moved from the witness bench to the dock as I stand here before you, and yet I’m not the one who has been sentenced here today, sorry! That should be married. Still, as my jury I feel obliged to put the case for my defence before you.

When Kevin asked me to be his best man he dulled the fear I would experience by plying me with a few pints and offering me a tenner. I told him I couldn’t be bought, so then he offered me twenty-five quid, and I asked him if he thought I was cheap. Finally he offered me fifty quid. So good afternoon ladies and gentlemen, my name is Giles and I’m the best man!!

Kevin and I first meet about 7 years ago when we started working in the same company. Back then at work he was always known as a ‘god’; you would never see him, he was holier than thou, and if he did any work it was a bloody miracle! But times change and it’s good to see he’s moved on and settled down with someone as wonderful as Gemma.

Apparently, it’s my duty to offer a small piece of advice to the groom and Kevin will be pleased to know that a successful marriage can be compared to football, ‘be fully committed every week and make sure you score every Saturday’ however, Gemma assures me that playing away from home could result in a serious groin injury and is definitely the quickest way onto the transfer list!!

So with all this good advice flying around I decided to ask Kevin what he was looking for in a marriage; he replied love, happiness and a family. When I asked Gemma the same question, she thought for a moment and replied a ‘perky copulator’, sorry, I mean a ‘coffee percolator’.

At this point its traditional to read a few of the cards,

‘Dear Kevin, from all of us at Madame Thrashards spanking emporium we hope you have a great day. Ps many thanks for your annual subscription cheque.’

‘Dearest Kevy Wevy, I miss your strong arms, your tender loving ways, the way you whispered sweet nothings in my ear. I realise I am a loser in love, but I will never forget those wonderful evenings we spent together by the pool. Love forever, Michael Barrymore’

‘Dear Kevin & Gemma, Wishing you every happiness on your wedding day, unfortunately owing to unforeseen circumstances I can’t be there with you to celebrate your day in person. Lots of love, Al Sama Bin Laden.’

It therefore gives me great pleasure to invite you all to charge your glasses, and be upstanding as we toast the new couple, Mr & Mrs Meek, the bride & groom, ladies & gentlemen, ‘the bride & groom’.”


Saturday, January 10, 2009

Transitions In Life

It has come to the point where I can no longer live on my own and so I made the difficult decision to move back in with my parents in November. As you can expect, things have been quite busy on my end. However, after a very frantic week of packing and moving in mid November, I can now officially say that I have now moved back in with my parents. Things are a bit different this time around. I don’t know if it’s because my family has been more sensitive and are more aware of my issues and problems of late and so, have shown more support for my situation. I think that in some ways, there has been more of an open discussion amongst my close family members of my condition (whether I was present or not) and that they have taken it into account. I have to admit, it does help to have a strong support network and I think that at this point in my life I can finally say that I do have one. I have family and a few carefully selected friends that I trust and confide in that represent my support network.

Moving back in with my parents was a difficult but necessary decision I had to make. One of the reasons why I chose to move back in was because of school.  I had finally made the decision to go back to school to pursue a drastically different career.  It took me a while to decide. I hemmed and hawed and did thorough research. Now, I can say that I am officially embarking a career in Holistic Nutrition. Health and Nutrition is quite different from the business world I left. I’m excited but also terrified about this new career. Quite frankly, I am beginning from scratch just like someone that had finished high school. My plan is to complete a 1 year program in Holistic Nutrition. The program also includes a co-op placement as well. After completion of the program, I should have a good idea if I want to continue on this career path. I will then determine whether I would like to go back to school to get my designation to be a Dietician.



What’s the difference between a Dietician and a Nutritionist?


Dieticians are focused on treating individuals that have chronic problems such as diabetes, heart disease and malnutrition. It is also a more westernized approach in that these professionals treat symptoms and not prevention.


Nutritionists, focus on teaching individuals how to live healthy in body, mind and soul through preventative health. Specifically, good nutrition.



To be a Dietician in Canada, you would need to complete a 4 year science degree majoring in nutrition studies. Then, you can either complete an internship which would make you eligible to write the national exam, or, you can complete a Master’s program and then write the national exam. Most complete a Master’s program and an internship. As well, most also continue on and do a doctorate to get their PhD. As you can see, lots of school and training! I will also note, that I never took  any science courses in high school. I only completed the required science courses, which was up to grade 10 science, as well as grade 11 general biology. This means, that I would need to get my grade 12 or OAC Chemistry and Biology course before I could even apply to university! By the time I finish school I think I’ll probably in my 40’s.  This is only one route I could take.  I am also considering other career paths in alternative medicine. Some options I am considering are: homeopathy, naturopathic medicine, Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM), acupuncture, Herbalism, Aryuveda… the list goes on but, for the most part, those are the ones I am currently interested in pursuing. However, I have told myself to not make any hasty decisions yet and to focus on this 1 year Holistic Nutrition program first. I should have a good idea as to what I my next steps are. Technically speaking, after I complete the Holistic Nutrition program,  I would be able to start work right away and have my own practice or work directly in the field. My program has already started and so far it’s been quite interesting. I will admit that it will take some time for me to get readjusted to going back to school full time. However, it makes such a huge difference when one is truly excited to learn about the subject they are taking.

Another exciting thing that has happened in my life is of a more personal nature. I’ve met someone that I am truly excited to be with. It has been a long time that I’ve met anyone that I can say I actually like. We met through a mutual friend and pretty much from there we started seeing each other. It’s been a little over 2 months and things are still going well. I have to say that he is very different from the types of men I usually date. The most distinguishing feature about this person is that he is an open, caring and supportive person. Right from the beginning I felt like I could talk to him about anything. Well, not anything. I still haven’t told him about my condition. However, he is the only person I have dated where I felt even remotely close to opening up about it.  Not only that, he has been very supportive about going back to school. It also isn’t such a bad thing that he lives about half an hour away from my place. I’ve already met his family and, interestingly, they all seem to like me. He made particular note that his mother is quite fond of me.  I found it cute that he mentioned that to me.  Things have never looked better in my love life. He’s already mentioned that he wanted me to go to his best friend’s wedding in July where he is the best man. That’s 9 months into the relationship so I don’t think he plans on going anywhere. Sometimes I have to stop myself from thinking negatively. Interestingly, he also helps me with that too.  I really do like this one and hope this one works out. The pessimist in me wonders how long it will last before things fizzle out. But my heart knows that deep down, he’s going to be around a long time.

Every year around Christmas, I get together with friends to make Christmas Cookies. Generally speaking, it’s one friend I have that does this annually and it’s really her sister’s and a few other friends that do it. However, this year, my friend’s daughter came down with a cold and next thing she knew her whole household had gotten sick. As a result of that, the annual Christmas bake off was canceled. I was quite disappointed but determined to make Christmas cookies this year. So that, is how I decided to start a new tradition in my family. I decided I would make them myself. They turned out so well and when I had spoken to one of my sister’s about it, she stated she never knew I liked baking so much.  We both reminisced about our experimental baking days when we were younger. I have to admit, there were quite a lot of disasters. But we always had so much fun. So she suggested we do them together again during Christmas. Because I had made the cookies ahead of time, I knew in advance what to adjust in each recipe. When my sister’s came down, I got them to generally do the work while I supervised. Of course I did some work too but I got them to do it. It was quite funny as I realized who was better at what and who was the messy cook/baker in the family! We had the music going and I think by the end, we were all tired. I wish I had a good digital camera to take some pics of the cookies. In the end, we had cranberry shortbread squares, cranberry white chocolate shortbread (shaped in pie slices), chocolate almond biscotti, ginger cookies, rum balls, butterscotch squares or blondies, and some good ole chocolate cookies with white chocolate and skor bits. I made sure everyone got a package to bring home and also made some extra ones for my aunties  as well as for one of my good friends and of course my sweetheart. I had made some extras to eat around the holidays and also to package for later as I had mentioned to a few friends I would give them some. The funny thing was that I knew I wasn’t going to have time to see some of my friends so while the cookies stayed home we kept eating them all! I laughed and took it in good spirit but said, I think I will have to make extra cookies for  my friends after my sister’s leave since we kept eating them. They were very good. Unfortunately, they are definitely not something that is healthy as all ingredients used quite a bit of butter and sugar. In the end, I think I used 5 blocks of butter. That means I used 10 cups of butter! You don’t even want to know how much sugar I used. Let’s just leave that alone. In all, it was a good experience and I think a good new tradtion to continue on.


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Friday, January 9, 2009

A Broken Franchise

Last night, a rumor started swirling.

John Smoltz - the winningest postseason pitcher in baseball history, a sure-fire Hall of Famer, the guy who had one of the highlights of the Braves’ 2008 season with his 3000th strikeout, the face of the franchise, and a guy who spent 20 years with the organization - was close to signing with the Red Sox.

How is that possible? There were no rumblings from the Braves camp. No one seemed to know what was going on. People seemed to take Smoltz returning for granted. Even Chipper was floored when Smoltzie started calling the team to say his goodbyes. It’s unacceptable and it’s downright insulting to the players and the fans. Reports from various sources claim that Smoltz was either offered a minor league contract (in which case he should have thrown it in tbe douchebag’s Wren’s face - good for him if he left over that, because it’s offensive) or he was offered significantly less guaranteed money with significantly more difficult incentives. I understand that the Red Sox have more scratch than the Braves. Really, I do. That’s fine. I accept it. They’re a larger market, they rake in more cash, they spend more money to improve the product they put on the field. Economics, cool. What happened here, however, is atrocious. It speaks volumes about the direction this club is headed in. Smoltz is a guy who has taken less money to play for the Braves before, and he expressed his wishes to finish his HoF career in Atlanta. I can’t imagine what had to happen for him to leave like this. We’re sitting on $40 million that most Braves fans thought would be invested in, you know, good players. Smoltz, even though he’s old and coming off a surgery, is a good player. He threw over 200 innings in 2007, with a 137 ERA+. As a 40 year old. That’s something special. That is absolutely not something you let walk out of the door because you sat on your hands. Especially when it’s the face of the franchise and your ace that’s leaving. As a Braves fan, I expect better.

The biggest offseason acquisition? A painfully average Javier Vazquez. A guy whose career ERA+ hovers around 100. He’s no Jake Peavy or AJ Burnett. He’s certainly no replacement for John. It’s a sad day to be a Braves fan. 

All the best to John Smoltz, an incredibly classy guy. He has no idea what watching him, Glavine, and Mad Dog decimate batters in their heyday meant to Braves fans. I hope he remembers Atlanta fondly, and not by what has happened. Great pick up by the Red Sox - go get yourself a ring. 

The Braves are headed back into obscurity, and quickly. Change is needed at the top.

 

-FFW


Thursday, January 8, 2009

Oh no Fire!!

After the new year has started, many family lost children, cousins, relatives, grandparents by fire..

Tragedy - 1

3 children found in death on 2 days ago. Little children who were 4,3 and only 6 month years old had been left for a while, a mother went out for 30 minutes.  The mother screamed “Where is my children?” …

Unfortunately, the 3 dead body found after 32 minutes of extinction…Police search for the causing of the fire.

Tragedy - 2

Another similar news came out yesterday 7 January in Tokyo about 5 :20 in the early morning. 3 children and a man found in death at home. A university student (20), 5th grade boy (10), a gir (6), and  The house is all burnt and a 44 years old officer (who is a young brother of this house person).

A grandfather sayd I was going to try to put a fire to incense sticks but it ignited to bath towels and burned up.

I am so sad to hear this news. I hope everything will be ok for this 2 families…


stabbed n blaze Real Murder crime scene of Girls stabbed n set on fire

Wednesday, January 7, 2009

The Idea And Value Of Systematic Theology: Insights From Cornelius Van Til

After reading my first Systematic Theology, in the form of Concise Reformed Dogmatics by J. van Genderen and W.H. Velema, I have become enthused about the study and in wanting to learn more, but still sticking with a dutchman, I am currently reading Cornelius Van Til’s An Introduction to Systematic Theology, which is more than a mere introduction, as in addition to Prologemena, Van Til also coveres the doctrines of Revelation, Scripture, and even dabbles into Theology Proper, that is, the doctrine of God. The first chapter of the book is titled The Idea and Value of Systematic Theology and the insight it holds is wonderful and enlightening. In a rare move on my part, I read the relatively short chapter three times in my first day of reading so that it may get stuck in my mind. And to further implant the teaching into my way of thinking, I think it would be best to put it in writing and share with any readers that may come across.

The Idea of Systematic Theology

The Value of Systematic Theology

Concluding Thoughts


Tuesday, January 6, 2009

The Fight Over NASA’s Future


The Orion capsule used in the Constellation program looks like the capsules from the Apollo program, but it is a much bigger beast. The Apollo capsules that went to the moon carried three astronauts; Orion can hold as many as six. In this photograph, a mock-up of the Orion capsule is moved into a hangar at NASA’s Langley Research Center in Hampton, Va.

NASA has named the rocket Ares I, as in the god of war — and its life has been a battle from the start.

Ares I is part of a new system of spacecraft being designed by the National Aeronautics and Space Administration to replace the nation’s aging space shuttles. The Ares I and its Orion capsule, along with a companion heavy-lift rocket known as the Ares V, are meant for travel to the Moon and beyond.

Technical troubles have dogged the design process for the Ares I, the first of the rockets scheduled to be built, with attendant delays and growing costs. And in an age of always-on communication, instant messages and blogs, internal debate that once might have been part of a cloistered process has spilled into public view.

Some critics say there are profound problems with the design that render the Ares I dead on arrival, while other observers argue that technical complications crop up in any spacecraft development program of this scope. …

Orion is far heavier than the Apollo capsule and weight issues have required redesigns of both the capsule and the rocket, further complicating technical issues. Engineers have also had to come up with ways to dampen potentially dangerous vibrations along the shaft of the rocket as the solid rocket engine empties. …

Some inside the development program have complained that it is run with a my-way-or-the-highway attitude that stifles dissent and innovation. Jeffrey Finckenor, an engineer who left NASA this year, sent a goodbye letter to colleagues that expressed his frustrations with the program. “At the highest levels of the agency, there seems to be a belief that you can mandate reality,” he wrote, “followed by a refusal to accept any information that runs counter to that mandate.” The letter was posted to the independent NASA Watch Web site.

Mr. Finckenor has refused to comment further. …via The Long Countdown - The Fight Over NASA’s Future - NYTimes.com.


Monday, January 5, 2009

The post-Christmas post!

I hope that everyone had a great Christmas holiday!  I was able to finish my nephew’s hat, which was actually my first complete knitting finish.  He loves it, and so I’m happy.  I owe four nieces similar hats.  I’ve finished one and have three more to go.  They are quick knits, but I will probably not finish them all for a couple of weeks.  I wish they were done, because it’s so stinking cold here in Utah, and I know that they’d be wearing them if they had them!

I have set up the serger and sewing machine and have been able to make a minke blanket for my mom and serging lots of linen.  I found a great deal at the Craft Center. They had some linen odd and end packages for five bucks each.  I bought two, and came away with some pretty nice pieces for ornaments and small projects.

Of course, the hats and the blanket, as well as some other items were to have been finished for Christmas.  Thankfully, my family and friends accept IOU’s, which is what most of them got this year.  School, work, and everything else were just too much, and I determined to follow my motto: “If it’s not done by now, it’s not going to get done in time, so just chill!”  I’ve learned that when I have too much on my to do list, it’s nice to know that everything doesn’t HAVE to be done.  Just the important things.  And that’s what I focused on this year.  I still have neighbor gifts to deliver and I’ve decided that they will be delivered in January.  I’m going to adjust the note on them, and just enjoy the leisurely deliveries… after this cold snap though!

I am back to work tomorrow after almost two weeks off.  I think this was the most relaxing two weeks I’ve had in a long time.  And, while my to do list was hardly touched, I did take care of the things that matter most.  So, I wish all of you a happy stitching year, and hope that you and your loved ones are safe, healthy and happy.  I’ll post pictures of some of my stitching and other progress in a few days.


Blue - How Far We've Come

Sunday, January 4, 2009

The Seven Habits of a Highly Effective Programs

I stole the title of this post from one of my favorite books written by Dale Carnagie, “The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People”.  If you haven’t read the book, I would suggest that you do.  The concepts and ideas presented are literally life altering.  As a result of reading the book, I decided to create a post that used the same idea.  The listed content is the order with which I would perform each component in a given day’s training session.

1.  Soft Tissue Work (self-massage).  I have spoken about this before, and I stand strong that it is a crucial part of programming.  My favorite tools for this are the foam roller, Tiger Tail, and your standard tennis ball or lacrosse ball.  It takes less than 10 minutes to complete, and your body will love you for it.

2a.  Activation.  Activation is a technique that I haven’t touched much on in the past, but is a fairly easy to understand concept.  Basically, we are looking to “wake up” important musculature and prepare them for the workout.  It is tough to understand until you have tried it.  Once you complete some activation before a workout or competition, you will never go back, trust me.

2b.  Movement Prep.  The dynamic warm up seems to be a well known component of a good training session, yet folks often skip it.  Prevention of injuries is the name of the game in any training program.  After all, a player sidelined by injury is of no use to his team or his teammates.  It is frustrating for everybody.  Not only are we aiding in injury prevention here, but we are increasing movement flexibility and raising the core temperature for the rest of the workout.  A must have in any program.

2c.  Mobility.  It has been said that mobility work should be included into a trainee’s program for every decade that they have been alive (weekly).  What this means is that someone who is 22 years old should engage in 2 mobility session/week, or someone who is 15 years old should participate in 1 mobility session/week.  In my mind, mobility is the first to go as we age.  With this said, become more aware of the amount of people that have lost their mobility, it is staggering, especially to think that this could be offset by a couple of exercises performed weekly.  Not to much to ask for healthy movement in my humble opinion.

3.  Core/Torso Development.  I have a hard time writing about core work.  Simply because core work was lost in translation a long time ago.  Crunches and their variations have taken the world by storm.  Stop crunching!  It makes me want to pull my hair out for a number of reasons:  micro-trauma to the spine, overdevelops the rectus abdominus in most cases (six-pack muscle), and has little real world carry over to sport or life activity for that matter.  We need to learn how to stabilize our bodies first, engage the deepest muscles of the core and learn to protect the spine.  After all, our core is our “natural weight belt”, preventing injury to the spinal column during movement. 

4.  Elasticity.  World famous strength coach Mark Verstegen describes this component best, “a unit to help the body generate force and make it springy, much like a pogo stick”. (Core Performance,p.31)  Jump training, plyos, shock training… whatever you refer to it as, it is crucial for athletes.  We need to teach our athletes how to produce force using their  .  Generate more force explosively and be able to reproduce this action again and again.   

5.  Strength.  I would include power movements (jump squats/hang cleans) in this section of the workout.  I think that athlete’s are taking part in workouts that have way to much volume.  There is no need to address every movement/muscle in every workout.  You just can do it in a time effective manner, and the athlete is going to wear out in short time.  Build a strong foundation and progress with the right exercises to achieve optimal performance.  Less is more.  Train movements not muscles, and get really good at a few things.  You will see results over time.

6.  Energy System Development.  The more mis-understood aspect of a training program.  I think it is because of the whole “you have to run for 30-40 minutes at X heartrate in order to get a good training stimulus” bologne.  This is false, and science has proven it to be false.  Most athletes don’t have 30-40 minutes to devote to a long, slow jog to NOWHERE!  My first choice for conditioning would be the slideboard, next would be sprinting, followed by biking, etc.  Utilize anaerobic intervals, get a heart rate monitor, and tear through a well though out circuit.  Pushing yourself on your intervals, while paying attention to your heart rate as an indicator to start the next interval will prove to be more demanding, more time efficient, and provide a far greater training stimulus.  Train slow if you want to be slow, it is that simple.

7.  Regeneration.  Maybe the most important of all of all components.  This is the period at the end of the sentence.  The best program can be written and performed flawlessly, but if the athlete does not effectively repair themselves after a workout, all may be lost.  Sleep, hydration, nutrition are probably the main components here (but certainly not limited to).  Sleep is underrated.  Our body’s grow and develop as we sleep, not too mention repair themselves from the stress and abuse endured during competition or training.  Regeneration is about discipline and developing good habits.

 

The main idea to take away from this post is that we need to change of way of thinking when it comes to training athletes.  There are a number of great strength coaches out there that are getting folks to change their traditional methods, which is proving to show  far greater performance based results.  Apply these concepts and I GUARANTEE  that you training and mindset will improve instantly.  Don’t settle for less.  Do the work.


Core Training Secrets 7

Saturday, January 3, 2009

Oops!

 

I know, I know! Yesterday I posted the third resolution of Jonathan Edwards, not the second (which was the next in line after number one). Maybe my math isn’t very good, which is a real possibility, or I simply overlooked number two (which is what happened). Today, I’ll make up for it by posted resolution numbers one and two because they make more sense together.

The first resolution:


Resolved, that I will whatsoever I think to be most to the glory of God and my own good, profit and pleasure, in the whole of my duration; without any consideration of the time, whether now, or never so many myriads of ages hence. Resolved to do I think to be my duty, and most for the good and advantage of mankind in general. Resolved, so to do, whatever duties I meet with, how many soever, and how great soever.


The second resolution:


Resolved, To be continually endeavoring to find out some new contrivance, and invention, to promote the forementioned things.


In other words, Edwards’ primary resolution, from which all of the others flow, is to glorify God. He obviously drew this from 1 Corinthians 10:31 (”Whether then you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all for the glory of God”) and the first question and answer of the Westminster Shorter Catechism (”What is the chief end of man? The chief end of man is to glorify God and to enjoy Him forever”).

His second resolution states that he will find as many ways as possible to do that - to glorify God.

May that be something we all strive for!


Friday, January 2, 2009

2009!

At last! The new year has been heartily welcomed in by the world, starting with Asia, then Europe, and finally the Jonas Brothers in NY (which coincidently had more humping than LEDs on the New Years Eve Ball). Past all the confetti and balloons in Times Square and the silly string being shot amongst my friends down here in The Woodlands, I can’t help but see how little I have changed this past year.

Sure, I always say that I’ve changed at least a bit when people ask, but when I look back at ‘08 I’ve come to realize that I’m still the same person. This might not be such a bad thing, but with all this talk about resolutions going on, I feel like I should’ve changed more since last year. I might have met new people, befriended others, lost myself in another crowd but I’m still battling the same problems it seems.

“Why can’t I change?” is the question I ask myself. Is it because there is no reason? Is it because it’s out of my hands? I’d like to think I have some control over my life. Yet lately it seems like I don’t.

I think the thing that I would most want to change is to be more outgoing. I know I probably don’t seem like the shy type when I’m around friends, but who is when they’re hanging out with close friends? Truth is, I hide a lot from people, which is something I’m not sure if I should be ashamed about. There are so many things I want to say, but I’m so afraid of being judged or shot down that I would rather stay silent. Is that a character flaw?

Either way, flaw or not, I think this year might be the year that I change all that. Of course, that’s what I said last year… so maybe I’m just fighting for a hopeless cause.

Happy New Year..

NV


Thursday, January 1, 2009

Images Of Martyred Children From Three Gazan Families

The destruction in Gaza has left no family untouched, but the Al-Absi, Balosha and Hamdan families have sacrificed even more than most. May Allah (s.w.t.) accept these children amongst the martyrs, and help their parents to patiently persevere:

Palestinian children from the Balosha family, five of who were killed in the same Israeli missile strike, are seen in the morgue before their burial at Kamal Edwan hospital in Beit Lahiya, northern Gaza Strip, Monday, Dec. 29, 2008:








Three Palestinian brothers Sidki (8), Ahmad (12), and Mohammed (14) al-Absi, who were killed in an Israeli missile strike, during their funeral in Rafah refugee camp, southern Gaza Strip, Monday, Dec. 29, 2008:











The bodies of Lama (R) and Haya Hamdan lie at a mortuary after they were killed in an Israeli air strike in Beit Hanun in the northern Gaza Strip on December 30, 2008. A fresh Israeli air strike on the Hamas-run Gaza Strip today killed two sisters aged four and 11, Palestinian medical sources said. Lama and Haya Hamdan were killed in a raid targeting a donkey cart in Beit Hanun, the sources said. Warplanes pounded Gaza for a fourth day as the Palestinian death toll rose to at least 360: